James and Maeva Made in Chelsea

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Omg because she bought some books so I assumed he was with them in the plane 😵. I was brought up like that, my mum went back to work when I was 3mts old and didn't really care... Guess who isn't close to her mum now 😬.

His mum and her mum need holidays to have a break from Beau, not them 😤😡.
 
I have zero problems with parents going away without their kids, if you’re lucky enough to have family or friends you can trust to look after them then why not! However how many times have they been away it what 5/6 months, doesn’t she miss him! We all beed breaks but so frequently? I’m sure it’s been mentioned on here before but from what I have seen of Jemz and misery bollocks he had no interest in marrying her so soon and now they are engaged and have a baby. It wont last Jemz will be off, maybe thats why they go away so much as Maeva is trying to hang on to him. No idea why he’s like a piece of wet lettuce
 
100% there is going to be a rant soon or when she's back 😂 so many comments on her pic but still people sticking up her for her 🙄 as above comments here nothing wrong with having a break from your baby but I can't agree to the extent she does it and going all that way. Again repeating others and myself but she clearly seems to be trying to keep the relationship alive
 
This blade adores her own reflection more than that baby! Absolute bellend and tbh anyone can look amazeballs when they’re filtered AF on instagram! She comes across as a very nasty person with a huge chip on her shoulder…guess Miles dodged a bullet and yet it’ll always be him she’s pining for!
 
I have mixed feelings about her going away from her baby. I’m a mother to a 21 month old and honestly motherhood has been way harder than I ever imagined and I have completely lost myself to it and been through a mental rollercoaster since becoming a mum so I understand why parents need a break in order to maintain their mental health.

Having said that, I find it bizarre that she has such regular and long breaks from her baby. I took a 1 night break about a 3 hour drive away from where we live, with my husband for our wedding anniversary and I was literally crying because I missed my baby so much. There is no way and nothing in this world could make me travel to a different country let alone continent from where my baby is. It would literally break my heart.
 
I feel kind of differently.
So what if she takes loads of breaks the kid is with people who love him. He is with his grandparents. Not in an orphanage. If the grannies are happy to do it let them.
My friend boasted about not having a lie in for 18 months as she got up every day. So what. There is no award for a mother not sleeping /not going out for dinner /not using babysitter/ being a martyr.
I notice everyone comes for the mother it’s 2023 James is the dad so should be held to the same standards.
 
lockdown sux said:
I feel kind of differently.
So what if she takes loads of breaks the kid is with people who love him. He is with his grandparents. Not in an orphanage. If the grannies are happy to do it let them.
My friend boasted about not having a lie in for 18 months as she got up every day. So what. There is no award for a mother not sleeping /not going out for dinner /not using babysitter/ being a martyr.
I notice everyone comes for the mother it’s 2023 James is the dad so should be held to the same standards.
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what is the point of having a child in the first place then? She’s literally spent more time apart from him than with him, that’s just odd when he’s not even half a year old yet. You can tell he’s a tit dad as well think it’s aimed at both of them tbh.

I personally wouldn’t leave my child overnight yet and she’s a year old, I don’t expect a medal at all but it’s my responsibility to make sure she’s ok and I feel better having her with me. I wouldn’t judge people who have a break away every now and then but the amount they’ve been away from him is shocking.
 
lockdown sux said:
I feel kind of differently.
So what if she takes loads of breaks the kid is with people who love him. He is with his grandparents. Not in an orphanage. If the grannies are happy to do it let them.
My friend boasted about not having a lie in for 18 months as she got up every day. So what. There is no award for a mother not sleeping /not going out for dinner /not using babysitter/ being a martyr.
I notice everyone comes for the mother it’s 2023 James is the dad so should be held to the same standards.
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i’m torn on it tbh and will also say at the start that i’m childfree and so can’t speak from experience BUT i do think a trip to new york is different from say a weekend away at a hotel in the same country.

my worry (if i was a parent) would be: what if something happens to him? he’s so young and it’s not like they can hop in the car and drive back if he needs them.
 
lockdown sux said:
I notice everyone comes for the mother it’s 2023 James is the dad so should be held to the same standards.
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No one comes for James because he said he didn’t want to be married etc. he wasn’t ready

she kept going on and on and on and ON about “ I want to be married I want a baby!!!”Constantly. That is a direct quote from her when someone else got engaged on mic . If she wanted one that much I think we thought she would look after the actual baby!?
There is a difference between a break ( once every now and again ) but to leave your kid numerous times isn’t right in my opinion.
It might not affect him now but it will when he’s older
 
What is this look ?
Little boy dresses up in daddies suit
 

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lockdown sux said:
I feel kind of differently.
So what if she takes loads of breaks the kid is with people who love him. He is with his grandparents. Not in an orphanage. If the grannies are happy to do it let them.
My friend boasted about not having a lie in for 18 months as she got up every day. So what. There is no award for a mother not sleeping /not going out for dinner /not using babysitter/ being a martyr.
I notice everyone comes for the mother it’s 2023 James is the dad so should be held to the same standards.
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The grandparents are no doubt forced into it because if they don't look after him when the so called parents are away the who would?

With your reasoning there was no need to ever have a kid. Its not about being a martyr. It's about getting pregnant and accepting you have different responsibilities. Them going away so much when that poor baby is so young is ludicrous. No two ways about it.
 
If grandparents want to mind the kids so what. It’s lovely kids growing up knowing their grandparents well.
I’m sure they would say no if they couldn’t do it
Anyway I don’t even like these people so won’t argue with anyone but I do wish all the new parents here well. It’s not an easy road
 
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