James and Maeva Made in Chelsea

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Tofino said:
I’d be shocked if a family court would grant 50/50 access to a two month old. And again I think questions would need to be asked about the bond with the mother / PPD if the mum is happy to give her up for 50% of the time.

I don’t actually know what health visitors etc can or cannot do if they suspect serious issues with bonding/PPD (assuming parents not opted out). I know services stretched beyond anything so I’m talking in an ideal world where there are enough resources, not the current state social/health services are in.

I’m not sure if emotional neglect of children is even on the radar of these services but I wish it was taken more seriously given the trauma it causes and the huge detrimental effects it can have on people for the rest of their lives.

And whilst a struggling mum passing the baby off to another family member is of course better than completely abandoning like the tragic case of Asiah (Verephy Kudy) the emotional damage it causes is still significant.
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I was just commenting on the IGer’s post you screenshot on here, I’m not disagreeing with you. I was in a long winded way saying: going on holiday/leaving a baby in family’s care doesn’t warrant social services or post natal services involvement. It just doesn’t.

My example re the 50/50 care was in regards to that IGer’s logic. Not applying it to a literal newborn. Many people share 50/50 child arrangements, generally.
 
girl123467 said:
Worst mother of the year award goes to M. How on earth can you dump your baby for that long!!! Also! The grandma saying yes I'll have him.. also strange!! My mum would say.. hmm not sure too long he will miss you
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I thought this too , my parents are really helpful and supportive when it comes to my children but no way would they have a new born that long or even an older child , like you say they would say for the babies sake and also for their own sake , they're fit and healthy but still it would be so tiring for anyone after a certain age
 
Exactly as I thought then. A couple of days in Les Gets, move to Courcheval on Saturday which is transfer day so a full Sat-Sat week holiday there.

it was definitely Thursday at the earliest (when James shared they were on the train and Maeva shared flight) which would be 10 days/9 nights away but possibly even Wednesday as he also shared a pic in the restaurant saying start of our holidays so maybe they stayed in a hotel the night before. So that would make it 11 days / 9 nights.

Bit more than ‘a few days’.

Next question is, when is the next holiday planned for?
 
DarceyDrake said:
I presume so , it’s all so bizarre and bordering on neglect .
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Absolutely. If it was a couple from your local council estate who had pissed off to Benidorm to get drunk for a week and left their newborn behind after already spending a lot of time away from him, you can bet social services/health visitors would have a lot to say but because these two are wealthy it’s fine
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Tofino said:
Saw this comment on her latest post and it’s actually very true. A low income mother would not afford a trip abroad but imagine if she went to stay with friends and left baby with grandparent. Not sure about social services but I’m sure health visitor would get involved in some way. Which is actually right because it’s such huge red flags for bonding issues/PPD but seems rich people/higher class are just not held to the same standards. It was the same with Louise Thompson.

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Oh ffs, I hadn’t caught up with the thread yet 🤦🏻‍♀️
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Tofino said:
Exactly as I thought then. A couple of days in Les Gets, move to Courcheval on Saturday which is transfer day so a full Sat-Sat week holiday there.

it was definitely Thursday at the earliest (when James shared they were on the train and Maeva shared flight) which would be 10 days/9 nights away but possibly even Wednesday as he also shared a pic in the restaurant saying start of our holidays so maybe they stayed in a hotel the night before. So that would make it 11 days / 9 nights.

Bit more than ‘a few days’.

Next question is, when is the next holiday planned for?
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Yet in her aggressive rant she kept saying it was “less than a week”
 
DarceyDrake said:
I watched the stories today and it made me feel sick actually. Any branding or companies that want to be affiliated with two “adults” that abandon their newborn in favour of getting drunk , dancing on tables etc etc need to review their ethics. It’s actually really upsetting. My heart breaks for that beautiful baby x
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Same here 😞 he didn’t ask to be brought into the world. They MADE him be in this world and look what they’re doing. Irresponsible immature arseholes the pair of them. James clearly wasn’t ready and she just did it to tie him to her. She’s a nutter. Don’t have a baby if you can’t be arsed to raise them.
She’s in for a shock when she gets home. When she got him back after she had coveeeed she said he wouldn’t settle for her. Is it any bleeping wonder !! She makes me SO mad.
 
The grandparents need to stop enabling . But clearly they are part of the problem . If my son behaved like this towards his newborn , I would make it explicitly clear that he needed to grow up, take responsibility for his son and support his clearly troubled partner in raising their son . What an absolute tit show , with one little person suffering .
 
girl123467 said:
Yes! The grandparents are to blame here too!!! Maybe the grandma is a controlling person and she thinks she can look after baby best??? Who would say yes to having a baby for over a week after you've had them 10 days?
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I think they have differing views on how to parent. I think the Grandma is very traditional in terms of parenting (only going off the MIC special thing they did when she was pregnant), and Maeva clearly doesn't give a duck about being there for her "much wanted" (LOL) child. I absolutely don't condone their behaviour, its actually disgraceful, and you are all right, the Grandparent's should just say no and not enable. Poor Beau
 
I think it's already been said here but I bet the grandparents know that if they didn't babysit, J&M would be going on the trip regardless and leaving baby with god knows who, or dragging him along and continuing to drink everyday - so they have made the call Beau is better off with them, despite the inconvenience?

Either way though these two need to be told. If they have the nerve to leave him for two x 10+ day periods before he is 3months old, imagine what other holidays they have planned for later on down the line...
 
strawberrysunshine_x said:
Same here 😞 he didn’t ask to be brought into the world. They MADE him be in this world and look what they’re doing. Irresponsible immature arseholes the pair of them. James clearly wasn’t ready and she just did it to tie him to her. She’s a nutter. Don’t have a baby if you can’t be arsed to raise them.
She’s in for a shock when she gets home. When she got him back after she had coveeeed she said he wouldn’t settle for her. Is it any bleeping wonder !! She makes me SO mad.
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Coveeed 😂
 
charlied0106 said:
Me 🤣🤣 I just can't say covid when referring her lol.

What age are Jemz and her meant to be? Cause I swear they are acting like 16 year-old down a golf course drinking warm cider for the first time. I'm embarrassed for them. Full disclosure- the 16 year old was me 🤣🤣🤣
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Quoting my own post cause it won't allow me to edit lol

I'm 31 BTW, not 16 anymore, unfortunately 🤣
 
charlied0106 said:
Me 🤣🤣 I just can't say covid when referring her lol.

What age are Jemz and her meant to be? Cause I swear they are acting like 16 year-old down a golf course drinking warm cider for the first time. I'm embarrassed for them. Full disclosure- the 16 year old was me 🤣🤣🤣
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She’s older than jemzz isn’t she? She’s 30? And I guess she’s like 27/28? I’m not sure how old he is. He acts 15 anyways.
She’s 30, a mum and dancing on ducking tables in the middle of the day!? Hope she’s proud of herself 🤣
 
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