James and Maeva Made in Chelsea
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Toffeebythesea
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Sadly for people like them, they won't learn will they. She either has PPD or just doesn't have that maternal connection (or both) either way it's sad and I'm glad he had MIL.
I think some of you are right in that she's focused on being a trophy wife who snapped back after a baby. To keep the honeymoon feeling alive and get that wedding.
On top of that she did previously admit a troubled relationship with food. So probably more body concious than the average person.
I feel like she thinks she's the one who comprimised the most (leaving London for the country-SiiiIIiDE, forgiving him for kissing girls, having a 'boring' life). However she can't make a false step before the ring so Beau is put to the side.
A shame as they are a beautiful family.
On top of that she did previously admit a troubled relationship with food. So probably more body concious than the average person.
I feel like she thinks she's the one who comprimised the most (leaving London for the country-SiiiIIiDE, forgiving him for kissing girls, having a 'boring' life). However she can't make a false step before the ring so Beau is put to the side.
A shame as they are a beautiful family.
strawberrysunshine_x
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All the comments on her post are agreeing saying itās so nice to have a break. She barely parents enough to deserve a bloody break
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And the need for her to explain herself. She must feel a tiny bit guilty.
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And the need for her to explain herself. She must feel a tiny bit guilty.
Lol her stories are so funny.
They have a few holidays this year and Beau won't be eligible for all of them. She also said James had covid on that first 10-day absence.
I wonder of James' family has some kind of timeshare in Les Gets as that's where he went before.
I think an element of her likes the headlines too.
They have a few holidays this year and Beau won't be eligible for all of them. She also said James had covid on that first 10-day absence.
I wonder of James' family has some kind of timeshare in Les Gets as that's where he went before.
I think an element of her likes the headlines too.
Tofino
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Wow sheās very angry. Telling that she said she wants to protect her relationship given the previous comments on here about her needing to make sure he marries her. Also they have more holidays planned this year and not all of them they will be taking Beau as it will be too much for him. If she thinks sheās making these decisions to protect Beau then sheās very much misguided.
Also basically saying āhappy mum happy babyā which I agree to an extent but I think this gets used by utterly selfish people who think it excuses their behaviour of always putting themselves first.
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And poor Grandma been left behind whilst 12 of James family go on a ski holiday (unless itās Maevaās mum that stayed behind!)
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The other thing that bothers me, especially when people say as long as grandma is happy and parents are happy then itās up to them, is the one person who it will impact the most doesnāt get a say, because heās a tiny baby. Worrying how many people have so little understanding of the important of attachment and emotional security in childhood and the impact the lack of it has on adults through life.
Also basically saying āhappy mum happy babyā which I agree to an extent but I think this gets used by utterly selfish people who think it excuses their behaviour of always putting themselves first.
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And poor Grandma been left behind whilst 12 of James family go on a ski holiday (unless itās Maevaās mum that stayed behind!)
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The other thing that bothers me, especially when people say as long as grandma is happy and parents are happy then itās up to them, is the one person who it will impact the most doesnāt get a say, because heās a tiny baby. Worrying how many people have so little understanding of the important of attachment and emotional security in childhood and the impact the lack of it has on adults through life.
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Why have a baby to go and leave him all the time to go on holiday? Aaahhh thatās right!! To trap your fiancĆ© 
Sorry but her excuses for leaving him are rubbish. Too selfish
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Just watched her rant in full where sheās trying to justify leaving her baby all the time. Sheās not a nice person is she. Iād hate for my brother to be with someone as childish, selfish and nasty. If thereās a full family away Skiing thereās enough people there to help out with him to let her and James go for a ski, meal etc. Heās part of the family.
Sorry but her excuses for leaving him are rubbish. Too selfish
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Just watched her rant in full where sheās trying to justify leaving her baby all the time. Sheās not a nice person is she. Iād hate for my brother to be with someone as childish, selfish and nasty. If thereās a full family away Skiing thereās enough people there to help out with him to let her and James go for a ski, meal etc. Heās part of the family.
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NoImSpartacus
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Big LOL at her angry stories.
āIām with him 24/7 I only left him for 10 days because we had Covidā
And thatās why you went on a night out before bringing him home? And a weekend away in London? And now a holiday without him? Heās only 2 months old ffs
And saying she has lots of holidays planned and heās not coming on all of them because heās too young, donāt go on bleeping holiday then?
āIām with him 24/7 I only left him for 10 days because we had Covidā
And thatās why you went on a night out before bringing him home? And a weekend away in London? And now a holiday without him? Heās only 2 months old ffs
And saying she has lots of holidays planned and heās not coming on all of them because heās too young, donāt go on bleeping holiday then?
strawberrysunshine_x
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Youāve all of this summed this up perfectly. Itd all well and good saying happy mum happy baby but that doesnāt mean drop your baby for multiple holidays a year.
The bit in bold this is also how I feel. A baby 2 months old!! Needs his mum. Why have kids if you just want a constant holiday!? Iām sorry but relationships do go on the back burner slightly when you become parents but each person should understand that. The baby SHOULD come first.
Itās funny how she has her comments turned off on her stories and I can get that negative comments have been deleted on her post.
I don't buy PND as an excuse for the trip in this instance, as I know from my own experience that mums with PND may long for a break from baby but they are consumed by guilt from being apart the entire time (even if it's just an hour!) as alot of the PND comes from feelings of inadequacy or guilt...
I don't think Maeva experiences either of those things, she just can't be arsed being a mum and having to be restricted, sleep deprived, out of routine, giving your body/time up for another human being, especially when she has a partner who wants to live his life the same way he did before baby. A holiday without him was too tempting for her!
I don't think Maeva experiences either of those things, she just can't be arsed being a mum and having to be restricted, sleep deprived, out of routine, giving your body/time up for another human being, especially when she has a partner who wants to live his life the same way he did before baby. A holiday without him was too tempting for her!
strawberrysunshine_x
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The fact sheās felt the need to explain herself is just so funny. Sheās so angry
charlied0106
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The anger is hilarious 
And Jemz didn't have cov-eed Maeva, he was on holiday remember
And Jemz didn't have cov-eed Maeva, he was on holiday remember
NoImSpartacus
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Her followers have just dropped from 333K to 332K and thatās within an hour of posting those stories!
Tofino
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The anger is hilarious
And Jemz didn't have cov-eed Maeva, he was on holiday remember
Yes he only got covid because he went home to her instead of his 4 week old baby.
Jackie Brown
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Just watched her ranty stories. What a vile cow. The lady doth protest too much....
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Mitzybonmootzy
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I used to like maeva on MIC but wow she is a nasty little piece of work isn't she?! Talking about 'protecting her relationship' a baby is meant to enhance a relationship and bring new depths too it. These rich people are something else hes clearly an inconvenience for them.... she doesn't NEED to go on holiday its all about keeping James happy and acting like a baby won't change their relationship.
Totally agree with the other comments about keeping James happy until the ring is on the finger.
Totally agree with the other comments about keeping James happy until the ring is on the finger.
The anger is hilarious
And Jemz didn't have cov-eed Maeva, he was on holiday remember
Even if she means he got cov-eed (
) when he returned from skiing, he didn't wait out the right time to be clear of it. Happily spread it to others on date nights, weekend away etc. Not a mask in sight.The math is not mathing.
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