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Lurker4321

Lurker4321

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So surprised this "perfect" mother hasn't got a thread yet???? She is a SAHM who is seems like one of those "Trad Wives." She has never worked even before her baby. Just stayed at home, cooking all day and going for walks. Husband works from home. House is immaculate.....Mummy comes over every Wednesday apparently with a home made meal and to help around the house. She uses her baby for content but it's OK as she puts a heart over her face and won't tell anyone her highly unusual name apparently. Baby contact naps and breast feeds multiple times a day and night. She cooks everything from scratch. Never had a jar. Even her birthday cake was a healthy one, she won't let her have any in her words naughty foods. Rachel looks like she has some kind of eating disorder so doesn't surprise me how controlling she is with her daughters meals. They don't let her watch TV. She's always placed in the play room which is like a mini nursery. She goes up to bed when the baby does, has never left her and her and her husband don't have any time in the evening together at all. I mean I did this for a few weeks when my were tiny but the baby is 1? She bleats on about how lovely her followers are about her. Really???? Does nobody else think she is really annoying? The other day she had cooked a roast dinner by 7.30 am? She seems so boring, I think she has attachment issues, it's not normal or healthy to be so obsessed with your baby.
 
She even admitted on a recent story she felt guilty whilst her husband watched the baby and she had 20mins to herself for a shower???? I mean wtf? She doesn't know how to be herself. I wouldn't be surprised if she home schools the poor child when the time comes Nothing wrong with that but there is when it's because the parent has such attachment issues. I just find her so extra. She is going to write a letter for her daughter for every birthday. She is so ott. The way she parents is just not sustainable or normal surely? Oh and now surprise surprise she works for the legging company what a shock-NOT!
 
Baby has to sit infront of them watching them eating takeaway pizza whilst she eats her own meal. Bit harsh, why don't they just wait until she goes to bed? Oh wait she goes to bed with her doesn't she 🙄🙄🙄🙄
 
Glad I’m not the only one who has had these thoughts 😂 god knows how they afford it, her hubby must have a very good job. They can’t have a healthy relationship if they don’t have any time to themselves! It’s not normal or healthy! People like her make other mums feel crappy (my baby has had jars and has watched the telly ooops)
 
Definitely! I love my children but I also like the alone time sometimes to get out the house on my own, it’s also good for children to socialise with other family members etc, she’s going to have it really hard if she eventually has to leave her (we struggled with our first due to being a covid baby).
 
The standard of parenting she has is not realistic or healthy. She should get some time to herself, I think the BF is a way of claiming she can't leave her. She also is very lucky that she doesn't have a job to get up and go too when she is moaning how tired and how many times she has been up in the night really annoys me.
 
I couldn’t agree more! I have a baby the same age and it makes me feel absolutely rubbish when she subtly boasts about how her baby is doing this and that and how she bfs…(not all Mums are able to bf for many reasons Rachel!) she always seems to come across quite friendly on her stories but the ‘I’m better than all of you’ undertone is always there… I don’t think she realises how damaging this can be to the other mums who are watching her posts!
 
Kezzabx said:
I couldn’t agree more! I have a baby the same age and it makes me feel absolutely rubbish when she subtly boasts about how her baby is doing this and that and how she bfs…(not all Mums are able to bf for many reasons Rachel!) she always seems to come across quite friendly on her stories but the ‘I’m better than all of you’ undertone is always there… I don’t think she realises how damaging this can be to the other mums who are watching her posts!
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Yes she comes across as all nicey nicely but definitely has that I'm better than you feel. I'm sure we would all be able to cook from scratch and not let our children ever watch TV if we had our husbands at home with us allday and didn't have to go to work. The miniature nursery set up makes me 🤮 When she gets the activities out and puts everything away immaculately every day. Just close the door and walk away.
 
She can dress that kid up all she Likes in colourful clothes, her little life is boring.
aside from the one baby class a week they go to, she doesn’t do anything with her outside the house? I have a little girl of a similar age and we are always at soft play, baby groups, church groups, chatting to other mums and babies we see out and about. She’s a real social butterfly.
Equally, she doesnt do ANYTHING herself. It’s weird.
 
notsuchaninstahun said:
She can dress that kid up all she Likes in colourful clothes, her little life is boring.
aside from the one baby class a week they go to, she doesn’t do anything with her outside the house? I have a little girl of a similar age and we are always at soft play, baby groups, church groups, chatting to other mums and babies we see out and about. She’s a real social butterfly.
Equally, she doesnt do ANYTHING herself. It’s weird.
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Don’t forget the daily walk 😂 but yes that is all she seems to do, that poor child is going to have really bad social skills especially because there is no way on earth Rachel is going to send her to nursery! It is weird and very unhealthy! Also feel sorry for her husband he obviously doesn’t get a look in now!
 
Oh dear....someone has told her she has a tattle thread, it's touched a nerve. Probably given her food for thought
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BTW it wasn't me....do you think she was told or she went looking?
 
I really didn’t mind her until she had her daughter. I mean, even with one baby, how do you still keep everything pristine like she does? Her recent posts have made me feel like a bad mum at the best of times, I have two boys, 4 and 1. My 1 year old is only a few weeks older than her daughter and I’m unable to do half the things she does due to being back at work full time because not all of us have hubbys that have great jobs, having lack of space and the lack of time to make every meal from scratch. I hope she realises how lucky she is to be able to have all the help and time that she has.
 
ns93xx said:
Definitely went looking, they all do! 🤣
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Well more fool her then as surely ignorance is bliss? What gets me with these accounts is how they get on their high horse. Turn it onto the tattlers saying we are mean and trolls. It's a gossip site, we are allowed opinions, when you open your life to the public you have to expect some criticism. Nobody is sending her any hate, she has gone looking for it.
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loopdiloo88 said:
I really didn’t mind her until she had her daughter. I mean, even with one baby, how do you still keep everything pristine like she does? Her recent posts have made me feel like a bad mum at the best of times, I have two boys, 4 and 1. My 1 year old is only a few weeks older than her daughter and I’m unable to do half the things she does due to being back at work full time because not all of us have hubbys that have great jobs, having lack of space and the lack of time to make every meal from scratch. I hope she realises how lucky she is to be able to have all the help and time that she has.
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Yeah I used to like her content prior to the baby. I thought she was a bit of a goody two shoes and it strange she didn't work but she was nice enough. Keeping house I think was a way of repaying hubby for not having a job and probably took any guilt away that she had deep down.
I think that's what I find so irritating about her. She has such a privileged life and it makes me sad and yes perhaps a little jealous, definitely annoyed when she moans about how tired she is. She doesn't have to work. She's so lucky. She has one child, she could have a nap. She doesn't have to school runs. The narrative she shows could be damaging to mum's especially first time ones, she doesn't seem to see that?
 
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Lurker4321 said:
Well more fool her then as surely ignorance is bliss? What gets me with these accounts is how they get on their high horse. Turn it onto the tattlers saying we are mean and trolls. It's a gossip site, we are allowed opinions, when you open your life to the public you have to expect some criticism. Nobody is sending her any hate, she has gone looking for it.
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Yeah I used to like her content prior to the baby. I thought she was a bit of a goody two shoes and it strange she didn't work but she was nice enough. Keeping house I think was a way of repaying hubby for not having a job and probably took any guilt away that she had deep down.
I think that's what I find so irritating about her. She has such a privileged life and it makes me sad and yes perhaps a little jealous, definitely annoyed when she moans about how tired she is. She doesn't have to work. She's so lucky. She has one child, she could have a nap. She doesn't have to school runs. The narrative she shows could be damaging to mum's especially first time ones, she doesn't seem to see that?
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That or someone she knows is a tattler 🤣 as how else would someone find the page!
 
ns93xx said:
That or someone she knows is a tattler 🤣 as how else would someone find the page!
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All very random, the thread has literally only just been started....she will probably drive more people over to here like old Hinchy used to crying over trolls sat in the dog basket. That's how I came to finding tattle as I was curious.
 
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