And if I remember correctly I think I Holly has previously said that they were young etc and it was so long ago so she forgave them. I'm sorry but age has nothing to do with it, the way they spoke and treated her was absolutely disgusting, Jay in particular. Personally it says a lot about a persons character, I wouldn't give them the time of day. Most of us have had experiences with nasty people and I for one would find it difficult to forgive certain people in my life. I think she wanted to be accepted by them all so it was just easier for her to "forgive".