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HowlingI wonder will she look back on this time and regret spending the guts of a house deposit on neon shell suits and human baby grows.
I reckon she will, 100%. I said this about her a while back and all I got back was 'let her do what she wants, it's her money' etc. Yes, it is her money, but as someone who is now knocking on the door of 40, this is all too familiar to me. I used buying clothes and all kinds of other 'stuff' to distract from the real issues going on in my life in my 20's (volatile relationship, unresolved childhood issues), and I wish so badly now I'd known how to tackle the problem at the time. Instead, I wasted thousands upon thousands of euro trying to fill this void and had absolutely nothing to show for it in the end but 100 black bags full of shite that went out of style after a week. I genuinely hope she finds something else to fulfill her, because endless hauls aren't it.I wonder will she look back on this time and regret spending the guts of a house deposit on neon shell suits and human baby grows.
I agree completely. At first I thought it’s her money let her do what she likes.. but this many months down the road she’s no longer blowing off steam or cushioning the blow, but it seems like she has formed a full on addiction. Addictions can form as a consequence of trauma and shopping addictions are no different. If I was close to her I’d be having a word. She has to have spent well over ten grand in Zara alone in about four months. That’s mental. I think where I would have had thought “leave her off once she’s happy” a few months ago I’d be in the early stages of concern now. She must have seventy billion of the same things in every colour imaginable. Daft tit as well like, buying for the sake of spending money and getting a hit. I think the break up has also made her quite bitter about all men and all relationships. A few times now I’ve seen her cynically refer to relationships and finding “the one”. Not all men are assholes. Her man was an an asshole, but many are not and it is possible to be happy again and be secure in a relationship. I think she could do with getting herself some actual therapy, and not of the retail kind.I reckon she will, 100%. I said this about her a while back and all I got back was 'let her do what she wants, it's her money' etc. Yes, it is her money, but as someone who is now knocking on the door of 40, this is all too familiar to me. I used buying clothes and all kinds of other 'stuff' to distract from the real issues going on in my life in my 20's (volatile relationship, unresolved childhood issues), and I wish so badly now I'd known how to tackle the problem at the time. Instead, I wasted thousands upon thousands of euro trying to fill this void and had absolutely nothing to show for it in the end but 100 black bags full of shite that went out of style after a week. I genuinely hope she finds something else to fulfill her, because endless hauls aren't it.
I agree completely. At first I thought it’s her money let her do what she likes.. but this many months down the road she’s no longer blowing off steam or cushioning the blow, but it seems like she has formed a full on addiction. Addictions can form as a consequence of trauma and shopping addictions are no different. If I was close to her I’d be having a word. She has to have spent well over ten grand in Zara alone in about four months. That’s mental. I think where I would have had thought “leave her off once she’s happy” a few months ago I’d be in the early stages of concern now. She must have seventy billion of the same things in every colour imaginable. Daft tit as well like, buying for the sake of spending money and getting a hit. I think the break up has also made her quite bitter about all men and all relationships. A few times now I’ve seen her cynically refer to relationships and finding “the one”. Not all men are assholes. Her man was an an asshole, but many are not and it is possible to be happy again and be secure in a relationship. I think she could do with getting herself some actual therapy, and not of the retail kind.
I listened to it - nope no goss it was all about the things she was doing to move on etc.. like reiki, mediums .. didn’t mention her spending spreesDid anyone listen to the podcast? I just can't be listening for an hour just wondering was any actual dirt dished??
No dirt she barely mentioned him, I'd have outed alot more about him and the bit on the side if it was me....I would have dished the seedy details, as one last twist of the knife they both deserve every bit of it, it was basically just talking in riddles and georgie comparing it to her cancer as usual....Did anyone listen to the podcast? I just can't be listening for an hour just wondering was any actual dirt dished??