That’s the problem, if I want to see my dad, MIL is going to see it as choosing my family over her & it will cause so much upset. My dad is more easy going and will understand but I sort of feel why should be have to do without seeing us simply down to his understanding nature.
The govt. would have been better off saying no household mixing than exclusive bubbles. It’s just adding to the stress.
That’s the problem, if I want to see my dad, MIL is going to see it as choosing my family over her & it will cause so much upset. My dad is more easy going and will understand but I sort of feel why should be have to do without seeing us simply down to his understanding nature.
The govt. would have been better off saying no household mixing than exclusive bubbles. It’s just adding to the stress.
Thanks for the info, it might help others. My dad unfortunately lives with his lovely partner, so wouldn’t fall into that category.Just to add that an existing support bubble (where at least one of the households is a single adult) counts as one household
If you are in a support bubble with one of your parents currently then that’s 1 household, your other parent is the 2nd household and your MIL is the 3rd, hope that helps x
I think thats why a lot of people are going to break the rules unintentionally tbh. If you dont look into it and just see the headline 'Can mix with 3 households' people are just going to think that as long as theres no more 3 households together at once they are ok. Which is obviously not trueIt is stressful and overly complicated. Thank goodness for this forum where people are explaining the rules. The rules set out by the government are so confusing! I get that they are trying to let us have some normality, but it is going to cause rifts and upset and it is definitely going to cause a spike in cases again.
Thanks for the info, it might help others. My dad unfortunately lives with his lovely partner, so wouldn’t fall into that category.
The certainly need people to mix so it spreads . Allowing people to mix in their 3 households at least means they can trace the infections if people come down with symptoms afterwardsPotentially the gov are still going for some kind of herd immunity?? Just a theory but they know people are going to bend and break rules. They just have to be seen to be doing something. The rules won’t be enforced and I don’t think they’ll actually be bothered.
I think they’re one???Ok how does it work with existing bubbles and extended households - so my brother is already in a “bubble” with my parents (in wales it’s called an extended household so essentially you treat it as 1 household). Does that mean on Christmas himself and my parents are still only one household or would they count as 2?
The 3 all have to agree to be each other’s bubbles I thinkAh confused. So if we were to bubble up with two other households, can each of them then bubble with one other (that we can’t then see)? Or do you all have to belong to the same bubble? Say for example could we see my parents and in laws (3 households) - could they then have us and 1 other house? Sorry - I’m not sure I’m making sense!
Just to add that an existing support bubble (where at least one of the households is a single adult) counts as one household
If you are in a support bubble with one of your parents currently then that’s 1 household, your other parent is the 2nd household and your MIL is the 3rd, hope that helps x
Ok how does it work with existing bubbles and extended households - so my brother is already in a “bubble” with my parents (in wales it’s called an extended household so essentially you treat it as 1 household). Does that mean on Christmas himself and my parents are still only one household or would they count as 2?
Ah confused. So if we were to bubble up with two other households, can each of them then bubble with one other (that we can’t then see)? Or do you all have to belong to the same bubble? Say for example could we see my parents and in laws (3 households) - could they then have us and 1 other house? Sorry - I’m not sure I’m making sense!
Thanks! I don’t think anyone in my family has understood and are just meeting different people on different days...The 3 all have to agree to be each other’s bubbles I think