Aamir fit #3 Steer clear of Aamir because he's the puppeteer

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I'm here from the previous thread. It's extremely sad to me that if so one of the children had to tell a trusted professional... the little one being so young I dare say much would have been said from her. I often wondered why the eldest wasn't ever in any photos/videos/holidays ... It would now have me thinking she didn't want to be involved in anything with him or mother. I remember T from years ago unfortunately she wasn't much better than him. Aamir was younger / pretty boy material with nice things she was a single parent ... the only thing the girl didn't do for him was change race because she literally couldn't.. this might ruffle a few feathers but it almost came across like she wanted to be the same race as him. The tan is just not normal it's green on her hands and feet.. it was worse back then
 
Regardless of how the decision was made at least they are all safe from his abuse now. Questioning anyone’s ability to leave an abusive relationship is victim blaming.
He obviously has a type - clarissa’s tan is as dark if not darker. Makes you wonder if it’s his influence. Talitha and Clarissa and any other poor woman to have the misfortune to be taken in by him are victims in my opinion. We know that many women in abusive relationships often try to change their behaviour and appearance to “please” the perpetrator.
 
mcsparkle12 said:
Regardless of how the decision was made at least they are all safe from his abuse now. Questioning anyone’s ability to leave an abusive relationship is victim blaming.
He obviously has a type - clarissa’s tan is as dark if not darker. Makes you wonder if it’s his influence. Talitha and Clarissa and any other poor woman to have the misfortune to be taken in by him are victims in my opinion. We know that many women in abusive relationships often try to change their behaviour and appearance to “please” the perpetrator.
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I didn't question anybodies ability to leave.
 
blubelle said:
I'm here from the previous thread. It's extremely sad to me that if so one of the children had to tell a trusted professional... the little one being so young I dare say much would have been said from her. I often wondered why the eldest wasn't ever in any photos/videos/holidays ... It would now have me thinking she didn't want to be involved in anything with him or mother. I remember T from years ago unfortunately she wasn't much better than him. Aamir was younger / pretty boy material with nice things she was a single parent ... the only thing the girl didn't do for him was change race because she literally couldn't.. this might ruffle a few feathers but it almost came across like she wanted to be the same race as him. The tan is just not normal it's green on her hands and feet.. it was worse back then
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Why did u say she wasn’t much better than him then refer to her as a single parent ???

blubelle said:
I'm here from the previous thread. It's extremely sad to me that if so one of the children had to tell a trusted professional... the little one being so young I dare say much would have been said from her. I often wondered why the eldest wasn't ever in any photos/videos/holidays ... It would now have me thinking she didn't want to be involved in anything with him or mother. I remember T from years ago unfortunately she wasn't much better than him. Aamir was younger / pretty boy material with nice things she was a single parent ... the only thing the girl didn't do for him was change race because she literally couldn't.. this might ruffle a few feathers but it almost came across like she wanted to be the same race as him. The tan is just not normal it's green on her hands and feet.. it was worse back then
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Are you saying being a single parent is as bad as being a woman beater . Or does it make her less of a person?? 😡
 
blubelle said:
Because she wasn't and thats a fact T was more than happy to go about video innocent girls while her man calls them out she has clearly grown.. your reaching for an argument I didn't mention anything about her abusing anybody.
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@blubelle if you have any experience of women in abusive relationships you might have a bit more compassion before accusing her of being 'not much better than him'.
 
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blubelle said:
Because she wasn't and thats a fact T was more than happy to go about video innocent girls while her man calls them out she has clearly grown.. your reaching for an argument I didn't mention anything about her abusing anybody.
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You said he had nice things etc and she was a single parent ? Why mention she was a single parent . That had no relevance

Kilingtime said:
@blubelle if you have any experience of women in abusive relationships you might have a bit more compassion before accusing her of being 'not much better than him'.
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Exactly !!
 
Kilingtime said:
@blubelle if you have any experience of women in abusive relationships you might have a bit more compassion before accusing her of being 'not much better than him'.
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You have zero idea of my relationship history or losses. your assumption is incorrect. This is a thread that people give opinions on I give my opinion and your getting your back up.. really not that deep.

julie29 said:
You said he had nice things etc and she was a single parent ? Why mention she was a single parent . That had no relevance


Exactly !!
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Yes I did indeed, men like Amirr who have narcissistic tendencies tend to go for women who either have children or younger than him... easier to manipulate (research naraccism and you will see the reasons why etc) they attract women by all the love bombing material things.. being a single parent is really bleeping hard so material things will always be used as the sweetener. I personally didn't like her personality back then hence my comment about her not being much better. I didn't mention her being violent etc you decided that is what I meant. Do I think she is a changed person yes I do.. you can see she has grown. Get the duck off my ass.
 
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blubelle said:
You have zero idea of my relationship history or losses. your assumption is incorrect. This is a thread that people give opinions on I give my opinion and your getting your back up.. really not that deep.


Yes I did indeed, men like Amirr who have narcissistic tendencies tend to go for women who either have children or younger than him... easier to manipulate (research naraccism and you will see the reasons why etc) they attract women by all the love bombing material things.. being a single parent is really bleeping hard so material things will always be used as the sweetener. I personally didn't like her personality back then hence my comment about her not being much better. I didn't mention her being violent etc you decided that is what I meant. Do I think she is a changed person yes I do.. you can see she has grown. Get the duck off my ass.
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So u think she went with him for money ?
 
blubelle said:
You have zero idea of my relationship history or losses. your assumption is incorrect. This is a thread that people give opinions on I give my opinion and your getting your back up.. really not that deep.


Yes I did indeed, men like Amirr who have narcissistic tendencies tend to go for women who either have children or younger than him... easier to manipulate (research naraccism and you will see the reasons why etc) they attract women by all the love bombing material things.. being a single parent is really bleeping hard so material things will always be used as the sweetener. I personally didn't like her personality back then hence my comment about her not being much better. I didn't mention her being violent etc you decided that is what I meant. Do I think she is a changed person yes I do.. you can see she has grown. Get the duck off my ass.
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Well said
 
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